Oh geez! That's not good. Can you find them online? Could you find flushable wipes? Or even baby wipes in each bathroom (and a trash can for them!). Or tissues, I guess.
Yikes! Running out of toilet paper truly scares me.
I'm glad to hear O feels better hearing that her side effects are (unfortunately) normal. M suggested to talk to her about a tube (either a G or an NG) right after she's taken Questran
. She said after drinking that, anyone would be pro-tube!
It seems like a big step (or it did to us at the time), but it honestly wasn't bad at all. A few days of pain meds and after that M was ok. The hardest part for her was the infections which forced her to stop swimming, and the inability to sleep on her stomach, which increased joint pain. But infections really aren't that common, I think she was unlucky. She's actually had absolutely no infections of her G tube site since then. I think it was just that she healed slowly...
The J tube surgery was much, much, MUCH harder than the G tube, For the G tube, it was very quick. For adults, they sometimes even use Propofol or conscious sedation instead of anesthesia! M says she would never have done it without anesthesia though (honestly, I'm not sure I would either, although I know O has nerves of steel!).
I don't think pain management will be a problem - they'll likely give her a pain med for a few days. I think the hardest part of doing it outpatient is the worry of Refeeding syndrome. Do you know what her pre-albumin is? Or her albumin? Are they worried that she's extremely malnourished or is she sort of stable on the SCD?